Here are some quotes from my amazing friends that have supported me from the start of my fertility journey. They make me feel warm and fuzzy.
“Part of your upbringing and history made you who you are today. You accomplished so many amazing feats and your ability to help people is partly derived from your own experience and pain. Sometimes our purpose here on earth does not have to depend on the length of time.”
“I support whatever decision you make! I hope all of this isn’t consuming you. I hope that you get the clarity you need to continue whatever path you choose and try.”
“I don’t think I would take that news like you are, but you are one of the most upbeat, positive people I know.”
“I think it’s a hard topic cause you don’t want to say something that makes the other person feel bad but at the same time you want to be helpful but don’t fully know how.” (This honesty IS helpful!)
“I am sorry that sometimes in my attempt to be helpful, I can dig myself into a place of words that might hurt you. Not my intent at all. I hope as you continue this journey of self discovery that you don’t ever forget how beautiful, smart and unique you are! Any feelings of fear or uncertainty are valid, normal and important since they give us the opportunity to face our emotions head on. You can come to me anytime to rejoice, complain or vent. I will be here. I think it’s beautiful that you are acknowledging every step and that you are being gentle with yourself. I admire your strength for allowing yourself to be open to this process and I feel grateful that you choose to share this with me.”
I’m eternally grateful to have you by my figurative side. <3 I wish Hawaii wasn’t oceans away from all of you!